When people talk about attraction, they usually focus on what they want in a partner. But an equally important question is rarely asked: What does your partner bring out in you? The people we are sexually drawn to don’t just
Last month I wrote a blog entry entitled “Are You Dateable?”. After posting this, a few readers responded by saying (not verbatim, but close!), “I know I’m not open right now to many aspects of dating that you listed. Does
It’s a well known fact in my family that my humor is a bit off. When I think something is hilarious, it often doesn’t translate that way for everyone else. For example, we were at dinner the other night and
It’s easy to talk about positive feelings but it’s uncomfortable to discuss all the negative feelings. We live in a “pack it away” society. From a young age, most of us are taught to “get over it”, “pull yourself up”,
