What to expect in starting couples counseling:
Your first appointment will be with both of you together, giving your therapist a solid understanding of what brings you in and what you each hope to gain from couples therapy.
Your therapist will then meet with each of you individually to get to know you more fully, including the experiences that have shaped who you are today and your relationships with important people throughout your life. From there, sessions will continue with both of you together. Your therapist will collaborate with you to develop a concrete plan that reflects your goals and supports you in creating the connection and changes you want in your relationship.